Christian Prayer
Bishop Mar Bawai Soro
LORD, TEACH US
TO PRAY
“He was
praying in a certain place, and when he had finished, one of his
disciples said to him, ‘Lord, teach us to pray just as John taught
his disciples.’” (Luke 11:1-2)
Prayer is
central to the Christian way of life. Just as Jesus often and always
prayed to his Father in heaven, so he taught his followers also to
pray.
What is
prayer? One might say that prayer is “talking to God.” Another might
see it more as “listening for the promptings of the Holy Spirit” or
“raising one’s mind to the Lord.” Some may pray only in a formal
way, together with others in a church. Many also pray at home alone,
in the privacy of their rooms and their own quiet thoughts.
We pray before
meals, in the car on the way to work, when trouble disturbs our
lives, when joys lift our minds to God. We pray when those we love
are sick, when a child is born, when the elderly die, when tragedy
strikes. We pray for guidance when in doubt, for forgiveness of our
sins, to ask for help, to give thanks for our blessings. In short,
we pray always.
Prayer thus
can and should touch every moment of the day. For two millennia,
Christian believers have prayed upon rising from bed to face the
challenges of our day. Again, at night, Christians have always
turned our thoughts inward, reviewing the events of the day and
begging God’s forgiveness for sin as we examine our conscience.
Christian
prayer over the centuries has taken on many forms. The Eucharistic
liturgy, representing the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, in which he
offered his Body and Blood at the Last Supper - prefiguring his
passion and death on the Cross - is the supreme prayer of the
Christian faithful in the form of a holy Oblation (Qurbana). Within
the liturgy we join our minds, hearts and voices to worship God as
we offer him our praise, thanksgiving, petitions and intercessions.
Prayer can
include meditation and contemplation; reading of the Scriptures or
other written works of faith; using the Psalms, the prayer book of
the Jewish people and of Jesus Christ, as in the Liturgy of the
Hours (Sapra, Tahra, Ramsha & Lilya); free-form dialogue with God,
pouring out our hearts and souls to his listening ear; and the
Lord’s Prayer and other formal prayers, used at liturgy or on other
occasions.
Generally
speaking, four basic kinds of prayer can describe what Christians
are doing when we pray. We can remember these four kinds of prayer
by the acronym “ACTS”. First, there is the prayer of Adoration
(praise or blessing). This prayer recognizes and adores God simply
for who he is, apart from anything he does for us. We honor and give
glory to the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, the Triune God, eternal,
almighty, Love itself. This kind of prayer is what is most properly
called “worship,” for in the prayer of praise we bow down before the
Lord of heaven and earth, offering our lives and all that he has
given us back to him.
Second, there
is the prayer of Contrition. Here we ask God’s forgiveness for our
sins. When we nightly examine our conscience, recalling the events
of the past day, keen eyes aware of God’s love operating in every
moment of the day will see where we have failed to live in that
love. To the Lord, then, in a prayer of petition, we offer our
sorrow for our sins, and ask the Lord’s forgiveness and merciful
love.
Third, there
is our prayer of Thanksgiving. Here we offer due thanks to God for
all that he is given us - life, health, faith, family and friends,
and every other blessing in our lives. Christians are a people
steeped in gratitude. No day of our lives should pass without
offering thanks to the Lord who has given us so much, and who asks
in return only our love.
Fourth, there
is the prayer of Supplications. While our praise is due to God
simply for being God, and our petition helps us to be rightly
disposed to be in his presence, our prayer of intercession offers to
the Lord all that we need in our lives. This kind of prayer is
probably what most people think of when they use the word “prayer.”
We pray on behalf of others (we “intercede” with God for them), we
ask God’s help in our lives, we focus on what we need - be it a
better job, healing from illness, or anything in between.
In Christian
prayer, ACTS therefore stands for:
Adoration,
Contrition, Thanksgiving & Supplications.
Special
mention is due to what we call the “Lord’s Prayer.” When his
followers asked Jesus to teach them to pray, he cautioned them
against multiplying words and rattling off long prayers as the
pagans do - “For your Father knows your needs before you ask him.”
(cf. Matthew 6:7-8) Rather, Jesus said, as he taught them his famous
prayer, “pray like this.”
Jesus taught
his disciples to address God as he himself did, as “Abba” - Father.
Everything else in this prayer and in the life of Christian prayer
flows from this relationship that Jesus has reminded us of, that we
are sons and daughters of God. Thus, when we revere God’s name as
holy, when we pray that his kingdom will come, when we pray that his
will be done, we are offering that praise and worship to the Father
as his beloved children.
In the Lord’s
prayer, we also ask the Father to give us what we need: daily bread
to sustain us in life (both the earthly bread, and the Eucharistic
Bread, which is the Body of Christ); forgiveness of our sins as we
have forgiven others; and that God may strengthen us when we are
tempted to sin, and that he may deliver us from the power of evil.
Just as we
pray to God on behalf of others and ask their prayers for ourselves,
so do we pray to the Saints, that they too will intercede on our
behalf to God. This type of prayer is not worship, for worship is
due to God alone. But the Church recognizes that those who have died
and gone before us in faith are in a unique position to help by
their prayers. They remain members of the Church, the Body of
Christ, while at the same time being now members of God’s kingdom in
heaven. They are still members of the family of the Church, and they
reinforce the promises of Christ that he will bring those who love
him into the kingdom of his Father.
From baptism
to burial, from daybreak to nightfall, at home and away, we
Christians are people of prayer. Believers in many religions also
pray, according to their own tradition, so we may say that one may
pray without being a Christian, but one cannot truly be a Christian
without a life of prayer.